Protecting your child

Being honest with your child and talking to them on a regular basis is the best way to help keep them safe. Remember that your child’s safety extends to their online activity, too.

Discussions about sex and drugs with your child are awkward, but necessary. It’s important to talk to them about extremism and radicalisation, too. Giving your child the facts will help them challenge extremist arguments.

Extremist groups’ use of internet and social media has become a prolific way for them to spread their ideology. Therefore to help keep your child safe:

  • Talk to your child about staying safe online
  • Keep an eye on the sites your child is visiting
  • Use parental controls on browsers, games and social media to filter or monitor what your child can see

Remember that even young children may be exposed to extremism online.

Trying to stop your child using the internet and mobile devices won’t keep them safe. Instead, teach them to understand that just because something appears on a website doesn’t mean it’s factually correct.

If you’re worried about your child, there are other people and organisations you can talk to:

  • Speak to your child’s teacher. Have they noticed changes in your child’s behaviour? They will have access to specialists who can help
  • Contact your local authority safeguarding officer
  • The NSPCC offers free advice on their website – and a helpline, 0808 800 5000
  • FAST (Families Against Stress and Trauma) is a supportive organisation based in the UK for vulnerable families and individuals

Resources

A London Borough of Tower Hamlets webpage covering the precautions parents can take to protect children from extremism.

A downloadable booklet for parents with information about extremism and radicalisation, produced by Educate Against Hate.

Online safety advice for parents from Childnet International, a non-profit organisation helping to make the internet a safe space for children. Whether you’re puzzled by parental controls or would like to know more about gaming, Childnet International can help parents keep up to speed with what children and young people are doing online. The website includes a whole host of useful ways to keep your child safe, from the basics every parent needs to know, to hot topics and emerging web trends.

A link to quickly and anonymously report online material promoting terrorism or extremism. Anyone can report material such as: articles, images, speeches or videos that promote terrorism or encourage violence; content encouraging people to commit acts of terrorism; websites made by terrorist or extremist organisations; and videos of terrorist attacks. All referrals made through this tool go directly to the Counter Terrorism Internet Referral Unit in the Metropolitan police for assessment and investigation. School staff may become aware of inappropriate content through students or through online monitoring software.